Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Homeschool Adventures at Bedtime

There are times when I start to question if I am teaching everything to the kids. I get worried that I am missing something profound that they really need to know. I don't know why I beat myself up like that. I know many homeschooling moms have the same thoughts about how much is getting covered.
Last night, while we were getting the kids in bed we let them choose two books. Every night they get either one or two books to read before lights out. Usually Little Man will just read the chapter book he is in the middle of until it is time to turn out the light. Last night he decided to read the Student Atlas of North America and a college algebra text book, my silly man. I did not realize until it was time to turn the lights out and he informed me that he was studying. I asked him what he was studying and he told me that he was studying geography and algebra. Oh my goodness, talk about your bedtime story.
I realized that I was teaching them what needed to be taught - how to get information on their own. I am not just spoon feeding them information for them to regurgitate later. I am teaching them how discover things on their own. And I am giving them a love for learning and knowledge. So much of what gets taught, gets forgotten. Think about all the times you crammed for a test only to forget the information when it was time to put the pencil down. I am not fooling myself though. I know that they will forget stuff they learn, everyone does. If you don't use it, you loose it. But, after last night, I am no longer worried. If I forget to include the feeding patterns of the mongoose, they will look it up on their own if they are curious. At least my little man will, as he has taken a liking to reading college text books.
Oh and encyclopedias, I cannot tell you how many times the kids sit around an encyclopedia just to see what it says about someone or something. If you don't have encyclopedias you should get some, they are a priceless necessity in any home.

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

A Girls Day

I love spending time with my kiddos. I do. I have so much fun being mommy and doing fun mommy activities with them. I have a really hard time understanding when moms complain about the kids being home from school for break because mine are always home. I love spending every moment I can with them. But, every mom needs some time to rejuvenate and relax. Spending every moment alert, ready to train, correct, praise, exhort and clean after can really start to wear on a mom. For me, it takes a long time to wear out. Little G lately has really been stretching me. What works for most kids does not work with her. It has become a very exhausting time in my adventure through mommyhood. I have been making sure I get a few moments to read my Bible and pray everyday and have really learned to rely on God for the strength I need to be the best mom I can be to her and my other munchkins. However, I still need some time to rejuvenate once in a while.
Today, I had a girls day out with my very close friend Diane. I needed to get my hair cut, it had been about two years since my last hair cut and it was just way too long. So... we planned a girls day with her hair stylist and then went shopping. The day went by way too fast but was worth it. We found some huge bargains at Bath and Body and bought stuff for each other - it was actually really funny and in the end, I think the girls behind the counter thought we were a bit nuts.
When I got home, I was greeted with lots of hugs and smiles. The kids all approved of my new do and told me about their day with Daddy.
Here are some pics of my new do. :)

Just before the first cut.


Diane and I with our new dos.